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You’re Not Actually “Busy” — You’re Just Drowning in Digital Clutter

(And No, The Digital Clutter Is Not Your Fault… But It Is Your Problem)

  • 2,814 emails in my personal inbox (no, not my business one).
    Roughly 70% are things I should’ve unsubscribed from three years ago.
  • 46 missed calls — yes, that includes spam calls from “Potential Fraud” that I haven’t gotten around to blocking yet.
  • 15 unread texts, mostly appointment reminders, shipping updates, promos, and even a casual “you’re going to lose your driver’s license if you don’t pay this fine” (I didn’t click it — I wasn’t born yesterday, scammers).

Constant noise. Digital clutter. A tsunami of small demands.

And before anyone dares whisper the word lazy — have we met?!

This isn’t about laziness. It’s about accumulation.

The slow, creeping avalanche of modern life screaming at you through your lock screen.

We’re not “busy.” We’re buried — under the weight of digital debris.


Let’s talk about the thing we call a phone.

It helps us do… everything. Which is also exactly the problem.

Every ping, every preview, every red dot is a request.

Look at me.

Answer me.

Confirm this.

Click that.

And those requests add up — not just in time, but in mental real estate.

That low-level stress you feel every time you glance at your phone and think “I really need to deal with that”? That’s decision fatigue. That’s your brain being pecked to death by ducks.


We’re sold this idea that success = busyness.

That if we’re not responding, checking, optimizing, multitasking, then we’re falling behind.

But here’s the real flex:

Clarity. Boundaries. Focus. A quiet mind.

It’s not about doing more.

It’s about getting clear on what actually matters — and letting go of what doesn’t need to live in your brain (or on your plate) anymore.


No, this isn’t a pitch to hire a VA. (Although let’s be honest — I am a huge fan.)

This is a nudge.

To clean up your digital house.

To unsubscribe, unfollow, delete, delegate.

And to start seeing “digital clutter” not just as a nuisance, but as a real barrier to peace, creativity, and presence.


What’s your digital chaos number right now?

How many emails, tabs, missed texts, open DMs are pulling at your brain this week?

No shame — just awareness.

Because step one to reclaiming your time… is realizing how much of it you’ve already given away.

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